So the girl my brother has been staying with has been beating on him... yeah laugh it up. i know. but whatever. so he needs some help. he has 2 little boys he is taking care of and he just needs a ride and someone to watch the kids for a few hours. the one son gavin is 2 years old, and the other is 10 months old. he is looking for an apartment close to the place he is going to be working and trying to find one within walking distance of work. just needs a friend to watch his back. basically she gets drunk, cheats on him. and beats on him. and just needs someone to watch the kids while he goes to visit the lawyer. he cant afford to leave the house alone because he is afraid she will try to plant drugs in the house while he is gone. she already tried to pull that while she was getting arrested and he was handcuffed and the whole house was searched. he is only going to be in town long enough to get custody of the kids. please call me as soon as possible. 1-815-973-2747. as soon as he can he is getting out of ND and moving back home to IL. so please, i ask you to get ahold of me as soon as possible for any help you can give. this is very important. he legally cannot leave the state because the courts deal with where the kids have been for the last 6 months. so he would have to go back and forth from IL to ND which we cant afford. neither myself or my parents can leave our jobs at the moment or we would go up there and help him out. so please call me asap no matter what time of day, night, whatever, let me know.

i would help but i dont live close enough help. tell him to ask is lawyer but im sure there is so clause that would allow him to relocate with the 2 kids. Maybe child endangerment? Id def ask and look into it. But im willing to bet he could get a temporary relocation for x amount of time until the custody battle is done. just my thoughts hopefully it helps. best of luck to him as i know its hard especially for the men to gain custody of their kids. Its always a hard fought battle than gets very expensive, but the kids are worth every penny.

yeah. he is going to work in mandan until it all blows over and once custody is done, he is getting moved back here. i believe he is going to talk to the lawyer again today. thanks for the response.

No prob i know its not a fun time for anyone and a lot of stress. I dont know about you but when i am all stressed out and worried and overwhelmed i tend to forget something that was maybe obvious or just plain didnt think about. Every states laws are different but there should be some exception to the rule to allow him to carry on what needs be in best interest for the kids.

somehow she just served him with a court order of protection... and she took the kids and got the house... complete and utter BS. and she is the one who got arrested for domestic abuse...

damn bro... 80percent of the time .. the law works in the females side.. im not being a sexes but itrs true.. cop comes to the house lady says she got hit guy is handcuffed and jailed..

i hope i didnt offend any of the ladies out there. but i do hope this works out for your bro, that trully sucks ass. tell your bro to carry a digital recorder with him at all times, just in case he can catch her in a slip.

thats just it... she was arrested for the domestic abuse, he never touched her because he was thinking of the kids and what could happen, the recorder would be a good idea but he cant go around anymore due to the court order. and if he does, the cops have to be there.

i still say carry one just in case ..she happens to near him.. that way he can justify why the distance was broke. and prove it wasnt his fault.

sounds like and effed up deal. id say just kill the ***** and be done with it lol. but all honesty its going to take awhile to get worked out. Hell one of my buddies has been fighting for custody and finally won but it took almost 3 years. Now he has approx over a 200 thousand dollars in lawyer fees court fess and everything else but its worth every penny to him so he doesnt care about the money just that the kids are safe, happy, and taken care of

^^^ which is exactly why if anything (god forbid) happens between me and my wife. she can have the kids immediately, no sense fighting it when the woman always gets the kids anyways. why go into huge debt knowing you cannot win. my kids would be DEFINITELY worth a fight at any cost, just saying it would be pointless.

the father is always the deadbeat it seems like for some reason.

vince - thats just a sh!tty deal man, if it were me id be getting thrown into jail for screaming and yelling at the judge asking just how the hell a domestic abuser gets all these rights while ill get the shaft up the ass.



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