I have been searching the forums but not much luck with my question. I am running around in a stock 00 cavalier base, and the first thing I am looking to upgrade is the suspension and wheels, whats the way to go with a good suspension that will give me good everyday comfort but give me the handling i would need for an auto cross?

I suggest Teins SS suspension, I have them on my car right now and love the handling it gives, its pricey but very worth it.

For spring and strut combo Tokico D-specs and Road Magnets are really good combo. It all depends on what your willing to spend and what other mods you plan on adding to your vehicle.

Where would you say is the best place to order parts for our car from online, is there a place that has like everything lol? Thanks for the advice

Well I got my D-specs from Ebay a while back and the Road Magnets from a Group Purchase on the org. I think the total setup cost me around 700 with powder coated springs .

My Teins I picked up on Ebay as well for $1200 shipped along with a EDFC(Electronic Damping Force Controller) for another $300 shipped... All new

The best places I've dealt with personally.
Car Customs usually Karo has great prices on his items not to mention free shipping&handling in the US.
Turbo Tech Racing Im unsure if Aaron carries the Teins but I know he has the D-Specs on his site for a good price. I highly suggest dealing with him.
A+ Performance, Jason usually carries everything for a decent price.
And last but not least Ebay. Yes as much as I like supporting Org companies, Ebay sometimes has better pricing but always shop around and talk to sellers thats the key on making deals.