im getting a set of asa US2 in 16 inch the are 7 inch wide and 5x100 bolt pattern
what is confusing me is theres like a 35 and 38 mm ofset (wich i remember and some others)

what would i need as an offset for the front wheels not to rub with 205/55R16 tires (remember there are 16x7) and the back wheels to"stick out" farther than stock (want a wider track than the front if possible)

its only 3 mm your not going to notice. i would go w/ the 38 and for the rear get spacers to push them out farther

so 35 up front and 38 for the rear (if theres a bigger ofset what should i choose for the rear ?)

I belive it would be the other way around, 38 front, 35 rear - but I might be wrong. But I wouldnt do that, then you cant rotate them (or it will look goofy). Just get spacers if you want the rears out further.

get all 4 at 38mm

why you goin with 16s?

so i test fitted a wheel on my wich was on the display and i really dont like it so i guess its a no for those