ToBoGgAn wrote:we are gonna take it in the ass and like it, cause thats what america does.
Slo2pt2 (Projekt Unknown?) wrote:One my SON is ADHD N.O.S and Autistic Spectrum Disorder. I will nto medicate him he will battle throught this himself and learn to control it.
KevinP (Stabby McShankyou) wrote:
and I'm NOT a pedo. everyone knows i've got a wheelchair fetish.
WannaBzee (aka BadAceDesign) wrote:perlmutter is a moron.
his opponent is having a field day with that 12th grade border guard idea.
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January 3, 2004 Saturday FINAL EDITIONSECTION: RMN; Pg. C-15LENGTH: 769 wordsHEADLINE: A new rite of passageBYLINE: Rick O'Donnell, COLORADO VOICES, GoldenSurprising his father, the son bolted into the cabin with eyes wide as saucers and a face pale as a ghost. All he said was, 'I saw a bear.'
Not even his father could have planned such a fitting end to his son’s rite of passage into manhood. They had spent a weekend near Salida hiking, camping and talking - not father to son, but man to man. The last night, the son was left alone in the wilderness. Early the next morning, he came face to face with the bear. Fraternity, acceptance, adventure and risk are ingredients necessary for an initiation to manhood.
My friend spent considerable time planning this rite of passage for his teenage son because he understands that modern America is failing to adequately prepare its boys for manhood.
Men commit suicide four times more than women. The federal prison population is 93 percent male. Only 47 percent of Colorado's sixth-grade boys pass the writing CSAP, compared to 62 percent of girls. On the 10-grade reading CSAP only 61 percent of boys pass, compared to 73 percent of girls. Among kids labeled as learning disabled, 73 percent are boys. More women now go to college than men; and for every 100 women who get a college degree, only 67 men do.
There are many complex causes for this sad streak of problems among young men. The largest contributor is the epidemic of absent fathers. Almost 35 percent of boys live without their biological father. Forty percent of children in fatherless homes have not seen their father even once during the past year. Boys without fathers are twice as likely to be dropouts and four times as likely to need behavioral treatment as boys with fathers.
We've all seen how a young boy intently watches and imitates his father's behaviors and values. Boys must learn from their fathers how to become men. If they don't, they'll learn from a coach, teacher or mentor - or be left to try to figure it out from movies, television and music. It's sad that for too many young men, sex, sports and violence are all that is left as anchors of their souls, rather than family, faith and hard-work.
That's why mentoring is so critical. Two mentors in my life greatly shaped me in ways that a sometimes-disengaged father never did. Now as a mentor myself to a fatherless teenager, I've seen how much he thrives on doing and learning about guy things with an adult male - things his mother, as great as she is, can never teach her son.
But even with more mentors, a bolder approach is needed to help boys successfully become men of character. A Colorado legislator recently asked, 'What's the use of 12th grade?' If more than 25 percent of Colorado men drop out before the 12th grade, and for those who remain it is a blow-off year, why are we paying for it? Good questions.
That's why it's time to institute a national service corps for men. I propose that after the first semester of 12th grade, all young men in America do six months of service. For those who drop out of high school, they replace those lost years with additional service. No one would be exempt, rich kids couldn't buy their way out of service, and it wouldn't involve the informality of AmeriCorps.
Young men could have a choice of where to serve, such as homeland security, armed forces or community service. After a basic-training type orientation, they would be given various duties in sore need of attention: securing our border with Mexico; thinning our national forests to reduce fire risk; providing homeland security at ports and other vulnerable locations.
Each year, 4 million young men would do something productive for their country, rather than drop out of school or waste time in 12th grade. They would undergo a society-wide rite of passage into manhood, one that provides discipline, positive role models, fraternity, physical effort and a sense of adventure and risk. Additionally, it would help assimilate the children of immigrants into being Americans.
We spend more than $ 370 billion every year on K-12 public education in this country. By eliminating the last semester of senior year for men, we could devote billions of dollars toward establishing the service corps.
It might not be as exciting as coming face to face with a bear in the woods, but it will help America turn its boys into men of character.
Rick O'Donnell (rfohome@comcast.net) is executive director of the Colorado Department of Regulatory Agencies.
Glace wrote:Another victory in the war against terrorism.
GAM (The Kilted One) wrote:They're committing economic terrorism.
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At 18, you can elect a moron, and get sent over seas to get your ass killed, but you CAN'T BUY BEER!
Big Smurf 01GT wrote:How is it not part of the issue? The reason they come here is becuase there economies at home are terrible, we fix the economies what is the reason they come here. They come here to make money because there is no money at there home countries. We can help fix the problem by helping them fix there economies. Illegal immigrants know they can make more money working minimum or less here than they can usually make in a year at there home countries. Most are not here to become citizens and stay here, they want to make for there families. I agree you sue the @!#$ out of the companies that are hiring illegals, so you send back the illegals, what is preventing them from coming back. What is the reason for them to stay at there home countries. MONEY clear and simple, that is the key. Not becoming a citizen.
WannaBzee (aka BadAceDesign) wrote:
Is it ok for a man to rob someone because he needs money to support his family? Even if he lives in an area where he cant get work? Breaking the law is breaking the law.